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Love and fear. We love, and we fear (though perhaps you may think we should say love and hate).
It seems that things we believe we hate, if we look closely at our hate, and share the truth with ourselves - we hate something because we fear it.
For example, let's say someone says, "I hate vanilla ice cream." Why does he hate vanilla ice cream? How can a person fear ice cream? Did it make you sick once because you ate too much? Did you have a bad tooth one time and ice cream hurt it?
Take a look back at something that you “hate”, and see if you can find a connection to something that would make you fearful, so instead of saying, “I am afraid of ice cream,” which sounds silly, we say we hate ice cream. And when someone asks you why, you respond, “I don’t know, I just do.”
Now if this were just ice cream, it would be no big deal. Who cares? Unfortunately, we often have prejudice because of our fears, and this creates hate. We fear other people because they are different from us. Your fears create a bad situation for everyone, because they lead to the creation of hate that is often acted out in violence.
If we can identify our fears, our hate goes away. When these negative emotions go away, you have love left. With love you can create, you can share; you come away with other things that can connect you to other people.
If you say you hate something. examine what it really is that you believe you hate, and find the fear that drives this hate. Turn it around so that your negatives are positives, and you will find yourself more productive.
Yes love can make a difference in your life, by examining what you don’t love, and eliminating that fear.
Fear will leave you hollow.
Fear will leave you nothing.
Fear creates the hate in your mind and heart.
Love creates warmth, caring, consideration and more. Love connects you with other people. An axiom of success is that you must have other people to be successful. Napoleon Hill’s concept of the mastermind proved that a group could be more successful than any one individual.
Look at your hate and fears, and move them to another place, and instead fill that place with love.
Your success depends on it.
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