Starting today, Life Motivations brings you the Dynamic Success Newsletter. Every week we will bring you information to further make your success happen, new challenges, contests, and insights.
The Life Motivations Success Dynamic Newsletter is taking a week off as we prepare for the rollout of our new, exiting format that will premier next week; meanwhile, we thought the best use of our emailing list this week was to get the word out about some of the many organizations mobilizing to provide aid.
If you have been with us these past weeks, you have pared down your list to things that are important to you that you want to accomplish. Now take some time to contemplate how will these things effect your relationships with the people around you. Give it some thought and write it down.
Last week I had everyone write down everything that they could think of that they wanted in life. Now I want you to pare down that list down to a maximum of 10 things and write those down on a piece a paper. Carry these things that you want around with you wherever you go for the next week. Keep these things in mind throughout each day.
Write down everything that you want in life. Take your time, even a few days, and as you write down the things that you want you will be visualizing a new goal set that you want. Really try it- think about the things that you want in life, and write them down. How do you feel after this?
Write down all of the things that you want in life on a piece of paper- not just material things, but personal and spiritual things that you may want in your life.
Imagination is usually considered the power of being able to form images that are not directly from experience. Imagination could be sensations that we may have. Where would these imaginations come from? How do we get them, and why do we get them? What can we do with these imaginations?
You know when someone may want to steal your dreams away- not because they don’t love you, but because they do love you. They say, “Please be realistic and reasonable about what you want”. They don’t want you to get hurt. They want to help you, but they also don’t want you to get too carried away, because if you dream something and it doesn’t come true you will be hurt.
Do you think that people don’t want you to change and grow, or do you think people want you to stay the same? Some people may even wish for your failure. Why would that be?
What is it that you are choosing to have in your life? Are you choosing success? Or are you choosing failure? Are you choosing to be safe, or are you choosing to go for it? What are you choosing in your mind- fear and uncertainty, or a worthwhile risk to see what else you can accomplish? Are you choosing that you can succeed and that you can have victories in accomplishing some things that would be important to you?
This is your life, what do you want to do? Has it ever occurred to you to do what you want to do? Not that I am suggesting shirking responsibility. But who are we responsible to first, someone else or ourselves? Of course we are responsible to ourselves first, how can we not be? Charity begins at home. Take care of yourself before you take care of others.
What do you believe you will do tonight at home? How about this weekend? How about you picture something happening that you wouldn’t ordinarily do, and do that this weekend to give yourself the confidence that you can change, that you can do or be something else.
Linda Martinez was 29 when she took her own life. Linda graduated from USC, and had a fabulous career going on. She was a musician that was actually getting work- and a lot of it.
My son asked me what I do for a living yesterday, and I told him I try to help other people be better at what they are doing, and so I talk to people. He said, “Daddy can I do that? I want to be in your business.”
You are what you think. You can be depressed, you can be a rock ’n roll star. How you become either one is by thinking that it is your now, your present state: “I am depressed”, or “I am a rock star.” What if you changed your thinking?
I own a philosophy company. Just a little over a year ago I was a General Manager of a large automotive dealership. Today I talk to people about philosophy, rather than cars or the automotive business. Some people thought I was crazy to give up a good job and open a philosophy company, and for that matter not many people have heard of a philosophy company before. Some people still think I’m crazy, and I call them Dream Killers, but more on that later.
Think for a moment of your life and marriage as a blank canvas ready to be painted. What will determine whether it is a masterpiece or a horrible mess? Is it the color of the paint? Is it the condition of the canvas? Or is it the skill, inspiration and visualization of the artist? Yes, it’s the skill, inspiration and visualization that will determine the masterpiece.
I have written several articles about this, the Unworthy Syndrome, the Imposter Syndrome, being teased or losing at something at a young age that stays with you in life even though it was something most of us would have let go.
It is called prematurely, or involuntarily, retired. Let’s start with some facts from the Bureau of Labor. From 2001 through 2003, 55 to 64 year olds were 13 percent less likely to find new jobs than 25 to 54 year olds: 57 percent to almost 70 percent. Older workers are taking pay cuts to stay in the corporate world.